To the man walking down the street at 11:30pm, staring at the woman putting out the recycling collection, in her cheepo jogging trousers with a hole in the bottom and her broken Birkenstock-look-alikes, swearing when the lid fall off the shampoo bottle …
Yes, this is real life.
This is real life when you have the first physical sensation flashback you’ve had in years.
And you don’t do anything, your face remains the same and you carry on listening to your friend talking. You swallow the panic and the intense nausea. You space out but try and act engaged.
You call your husband when you leave and forget why it was you called him and what it was that was so important you had to call him, when you’d be home in 5 minutes.
You go home, even though you need to go grocery shopping, and one of the first things to leave your mouth?
‘Why can’t I even react to a flashback like a normal crazy person?’
You try to take a nap, but can’t – or you drift out of waking and dreaming so quickly you can’t tell if you slept or not.
But you go get groceries and you cook your husband supper. Because that’s what you do.
You push away thoughts you don’t want all evening. Because that’s what you do.
And then you remember at 11:30 at night that you haven’t put out the recycling for the collection in the morning. So you do it in your comfy clothes that don’t get worn outside. Even though they have holes in and you’re grumpy.
Because that’s real life.